Many couples, after being in a long year relationship, they made a final decision to get married. As sweet as it is, spending the time of your life with your great love, you might after a few years end up going to the left while your partner takes the right. Being married is not what you thought it was as to the beginning. You want to spend time with your buddies and sometimes you have the feeling you are missing out. While she has to accept your lifestyle and your ways of thinking or doing things, you might have problems with dealing with her being so exaggerated while buying shoes or preparing herself to go out on a simple event. Why does she take years to ready up herself. She might always want to tell you who is a mean bitch at work, or who is doing what to provoke her at her job. While you as a guy don't even get bothered by anything like that. Why she needs always a feedback on her new hairstyle and recognition 2 seconds after you just seeing her with her new look. There are many things more, but the aim is not to end up being frustrated about everything he does wrong or she does wrong, but to accept, and to cherish him or her for being part of your life. She or He isn't like you so respect her for being herself. You wouldn't want a copy of yourself, would you? Surprise him or her more often and try to support each other. You also need to know the role you play as who is man and who is woman. You can want him to be more man and you wish she could be more womanlike and no boss or someone who thinks she needs to tell you what fits better with what. But the aim is to support each other he like doing so while you don't let him be himself and let her be herself, do according to her or his wishes once but, respect each other. Take sometime off, once for your love to spend some sweet time with her, do so as well for him. Make each other feel loved and special also make him or her feel like there is someone who listens and cares. She needs your opinion and you to listen to her, do so to support her you need her to say what she think about your new hobby or plan or what ever, but support each others dreams and likes. Don't end up being a miserable couple and separate or divorce. Love each other and be loved by your loved ones. Respect the family of each other and give each other also time offs for also having the feeling he or she is not in a marriage prison. Make your live exciting, spice it up, feel sexy as his wife and feel sexy as her man. Do something sexy for him , wear something sexy get a bit freaky and treat her like a woman and like a sexy lady you want to prove your sexiness to. Do things for and with each other, also simple things are sweet and are of value. Just love each other and keep doing so don't fall back cause you both are one, you got to work together.
